Get him hooked. Do it now before he gets away. That is good strategy for fishing and for great relationships. But what hook can you use? What will allure him? How can you make him your boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate? Read on and find out the real answer for yourself. We are going to look at male psychology and figure out how to get him hooked.
Great dating advice says to not use a sexual hook up to hook him. This is the wrong kind of attraction. Sex will attract men, but it has nothing to do a great relationship. It will probably cause him to lose respect for you and then drop you for another woman when he gets bored. Using sex to try to make him commit is a bad idea.
This is the most effective hook
Combine these 2 things playing hard to get and showing warm personal attention. This is the most effective way to get him hooked. But how does it work?
The fact is that men like to chase a woman. There is something intriguing about the woman not throwing herself at him. So you need to give him some room to chase.
This is where playing hard to get comes in. You need to play hard to get be a little distant and aloof. Maybe be a little standoffish. Make him chase you.
But men also like to know that they are welcome. They do not want to risk being rejected. This is where showing warm personal interest comes into play. This is the hook that can make a guy fall in love with you.
So here is how it works:
Call him or maybe text him. Keep it sweet and interesting. This shows warm personal interest. But end the conversation after a short time. Do not talk or text for so long that he wants to end the conversation. This is playing hard to get. This combination can go a long way in your efforts to make him fall in love with you.
In the same way, when you are at a party or at work, and you happen to catch his eye, smile at him. If you have not seen him for a long time give him a big smile. If you have not seen him for a short time, give him a little smile. But in either case, make it short and then look away. Smiling at him gives him a warm welcoming message, looking away rather quickly is how to play hard to get.
Make sure that you are the quality person that would only add to his life. Make sure that you are a fun, easy going happy person. This sort of woman is a people magnet.
I think you are ready to go fishing for that great relationship. Go out there and get him hooked.